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On The Google Phone
Arrington: We need a fake news Item on the albatross around my neck, more commonly known as Seesmic. Which one of you underfed nerds wants to write it?
MG: I would be honored, chief?
Arrington: Anyone else?
(No one raises a hand)
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Lots of boob and sex references in TC. My guess: You guys are a lonely bunch. That said: it shouldn't be something women in this day and age--should have to deal with at work.
Your explanation doth protest too much, and a simple apology would get things running smoothly again.
But you're spot on wrong on this one.
That image undermines Byrne's point even further. Hardly fratty, is it?
Also, I don't see that many commenters complaining about the photo. Most seem to be taking it in fun. In fact I only see one person calling it "horrible" - and that's you. I'd be interested to know what you found so horrible about the image? The rose or the fact that it's mildly homoerotic?
Either way, that's a separate discussion to the one about whether TechCrunch is anti-women. My view is that posting a bare-chested man to illustrate a story, if anything, runs entirely contrary to that allegation.
Just corroborating Paulcarr here because I didn't want to feel like I read all those comments for nothing.
I don't think the post was all that personal. It really just included that he had sent his mother flowers and she had tried to thank him. The heart of the post was how funny things can happen with google voice.
I find your language offensive.
"But there were other women there, and they don’t appear to be upset about this."
That's a fairly standard response to being accused of sexism, and it's never acceptable, implying that all women should or can be offended by the same thing.
Now to your demand for a "good response", by which you presumably means one that meets your own very narrow self-entitled standards. The asian boobs and vampire sex toy posts are just two of the 15,987 posts (I just checked) that have been published on TechCrunch. Hand me any publication with that many published articles and I'll prove any theory you like. How do *you* respond to the point above about the barechested man used to illustrate Mike's post? Sexist? And if so, towards which gender?
You accused MG specifically of being sexist, and the TC office of being like a frat house. The earlier version of your post was even more damning, and even more bullshit. You finding a post offensive does not mean it was objectively so. In the interests of accuracy in telling you to go fuck yourself, I made a point of speaking to *every* other woman who works full time in the TC office and none of them recognise the environment you describe in your single hour-long visit. A visit, by the way, during which you interrupted people while they were working, and then later characterised their focus and professionalism as social awkwardness. Your remarks about "big name writers" were as rude as they were inaccurate. As MG points out, the CEO of TechCrunch is Heather Harde, and a more professional, and brilliant woman I can't imagine working for. If there was even a sniff of sexism in the TechCrunch office, those responsible would be out of the door without their feet touching the floor.
Frankly the fact that MG has responded to you at all is a tribute to him. He's right, there's just one thing unwelcome at TechCrunch, and that's you.
Second, so you're saying if it were one image, you would have had no problem with it? Please.
Third, I still love how you assume to know my intent even though you've never met me and/or talked to me. If you took some personal exception to an experience you had that's fine, but don't drag me into this based on assumptions you are making about a person you have never met.
Anyway, you got your recognition now. Congrats. I consider this conversation over.
Yes the articles you mention belong on TechCrunch; that's why they're still there. No, the comments don't, which is why we all do our best to moderate them out. And yes you do see that kind of comment on TechCrunch Europe - and most other popular tech sites - too, pre-moderation.
MG has already said he considers the conversation over - and yet here you still are, bullshitting away. So let me be less polite than him, and put it in a way that even you can hopefully understand. The only thing that doesn't belong on TC is you, which is why I pray to God that we never see your limping, toxic byline on another TechCrunch post between now and the end of time.
Good night and good riddance.
I mean, I can be an ass, but Paul, you did it beautifully.
Other women should be ashamed because you have overplayed the 'sexist/feminist' card for your own personal benefit.
What I do find offensive is another female pulling the sexism card because (at best) her personal tolerance was tested and/or for the sake of sensationalism (and perhaps a shot at getting to play with the big boys?).
Again - good for you for posting this!
That said, I was not offended by the post but can see how some women might find it distasteful. Finding it distasteful does not, however, imply that TC is like a "frat house" or that the author of the post is in any way sexist. I think it's pretty clear what the intent was with that post (and the point was very well made!).
However, I do like to read TC from work a couple of times a week and found the image to be potentially threatening should any coworkers (male OR female) walk by and see that content on my screen. I suppose I would have appreciated it a bit more if the article masked the images and had a little "is it OK to see women in sexually arousing positions on your screen in your current environment?" button.
You absolutely reserve the right to post whatever content you wish on your site. I would just ask that out of courtesy, you don't post material that could get me into trouble just because I'm interested in start-ups and internet companies. :)
I particularly like the way Mr Carr can tell someone to "go fuck yourself" without undermining his point.